I love camping!

I have the fondest memories of camping when I was young and that is probably why I still love camping to this day.

My mom is Dutch and my dad American and we moved to California when I was very young. Every summer I would go back to Holland and spend time with my family.

During those summers my uncle and aunt would take my cousins and I camping in France and we would search for fossils, My uncle was really into it and I still have some of the fossils I found today. That was like 45 years ago. Sheesh.

I love sleeping in a tent, I love camp fires and the smell of them, getting up in the middle of the night trying to find the bathroom or peeing outside when it’s freezing. Fun times and I can’t wait to do it again.

Daily writing prompt
Have you ever been camping?

My reviews: Dave’s Nuttz

I was so excited when I saw these at the dispensary. I don’t necessarily love hazelnuts but these are a completely different story. They are so tasty and the chocolate/hazelnut combo reminds of Toffifay candy, my mom used to eat those all the time.

These are available in Milk Chocolate as well.

It’s a great treat, just a hazelnut covered with chocolate and a tiny bit of salt.

I haven’t tried any other confections from Space Cake Dave but I am definitely keeping an eye out for any of his products.
The effects are great. Giggles and appetite included.
I always make sure to have these in the house, I can no longer live without them.

Thank you for reading – these are just my opinions here.

Overcoming Fear of Heights: My Elevator Dilemma

I don’t like going up in elevators to site seeing platforms – like the Space Needle, Stratosphere or Eiffel Tower and once I get up there, I freeze. The only thing that would get me to do it is Valium, Xanax or alcohol. Doing any of those would probably ruin the experience for me so those are out.

I could try hypnosis?

Daily writing prompt
What’s the thing you’re most scared to do? What would it take to get you to do it?

1966 – Interracial marriage and the Year of the Horse.

I think the most interesting fact about my year of birth is that my parents were in an interracial marriage when I was born and I am a U.S. citizen. Interracial marriage did not become legal in the U.S. until 1967. I was born in the Netherlands and that is where they were married. I ended up moving to the U.S. when I was 5. Times have changed a bit.

People born in the year of the Horse are said to be energetic and free spirited in nature. I guess it’s somewhat true. I wish I was a little more energetic! They are also adaptable – I agree with that. They are kind and social creatures. I am kind but the social creature part has dwindled. I work retail and have for a very long time and unfortunately for me a side effect of the job is that my love for being around other humans is just not there anymore.

For 2025, I will be working on some major changes and can’t wait for the happy social creature to come out again.

Daily writing prompt
Share what you know about the year you were born.

Why I Gave Up Meat: A Personal Journey

He died at 60 from heart disease. I remember him eating a lot of meat and he cooked everything in bacon fat that he left in a can near the stove. My parent got divorced when I was in second grade and my mom was not much of a meat eater or cook. There were specific dishes she would cook and we ate out a lot. One of my favorite dishes she used to make was ground beef and rice stuffed bell peppers.

When I got into my late 20s I started noticing that I would get really bad heartburn when I ate meat so I stopped eating it. After about 15 years I tried eating it again but the heart burn came back with a vengeance so I decided meat was just not for me anymore. I don’t miss it because there are so many alternatives these days.

For me, it’s not a healthy choice because it doesn’t make me feel good and as time has passed, I really can’t imagine myself eating it ever again, I just prefer a plant based diet most of the time. As I have gotten older I trust my body a lot more to tell me what it needs and once in while I may crave fish, if that’s the case, I take advantage of the situation and take myself out somewhere nice for fresh fish.

Daily writing prompt
What are your feelings about eating meat?

I love the beach and the mountains but if I had to choose it would be the beach and I will tell you why.

I grew up at the beach so I have so many fond memories of growing up there. I have also lived in the mountains and love the trees and ferns and just being in nature. But I don’t like cold and snow. Usually it gets colder and snows in the mountains and I don’t do cold well. In addition, I get extreme anxiety from high and windy roads so the beach wins.

Daily writing prompt
Beach or mountains? Which do you prefer? Why?

I love veggie burgers, especially cooked on the grill.

Burgers seem to be our favorite meal. We eat veggie burgers. I am not that picky about what type of veggie burger as long as I know it’s been on the grill.

We also do Taco Tuesday, one of my other favorite meals. I like veggies so I can make a huge taco salad out of it.

Vegan Beef Bulgogi from Trader Joes with noodles and lots of Sriracha.

Daily writing prompt
What are your family’s top 3 favorite meals?

Living in Apartments: Navigating Noise and Privacy

Lately I’ve had some different living situations, they have mostly been apartments. What I have learned is that I appreciate a neighbor who knows and obeys the apartment guidelines. I like neighbors who remember they share a wall. They understand someone doesn’t want to hear any arguing or loud music after a certain hour. It would be nice to have a neighbor that you trust. If you are away, they will keep an eye out.

Apartment buildings with outside front doors – my preference.

Just over the past 5 years I have moved 4 times. My current apartment isn’t bad as far as noise is concerned this week. We live on the second floor and have neighbors on each side and above. My current upstairs neighbor is pretty quiet now that he’s all moved in. He moved in about 2 months ago and has been moving things around ever since. It’s finally gotten quiet this week. The people that lived there before were so loud, they had a dog and a cat. They were constantly up and around and I call them hard walkers because it was always so loud. We would wonder if they ever sat down because the stomping around was constant.

I live in apartments, so I expect a certain amount of noise. Still, I also remember I have neighbors below me and on each side. I don’t stomp, jump or run the apartment. I keep my t.v. down if I am up watching t.v early. My boyfriend and I don’t yell, we try to keep our voices at a normal level. I can hear my neighbors on each side. If I am in the room next to them, I can hear their conversations. They need to be loud for me to hear them. I personally just like to keep my stuff a little more private. I don’t mind keeping my quiet voice in place.

Apartment Buildings with inside front doors, no, thank you.

Before we moved back to the west coast, we lived in Ardmore, PA. The apartment building we lived in had no privacy! It was one of those buildings where you walk into a main entrance and all the doors are inside. As you walked through the hallway, you hear the people in each apartment. Their voices were audible as you passed by. You smell what they were cooking. The worst part of that apartment, though, was the bed’s location. It must have been right under the person above’s bathroom. Every time they urinated, we heard the sound of it going into the toilet. It was crazy.

I have come to the conclusion I would be happiest in an apartment community. This community should be respectful and trusting of each other. This environment helps the feeling of having your apartment be your castle.

Daily writing prompt
What makes a good neighbor?

The Joy of Walking: From Childhood Memories to Health Benefits

Why I like walking: I think my love of walking came from my childhood and younger years. My mom is Dutch and I spent a lot of time with my family in Holland when I was young. We would always go for walks, for fun, for adventure, after big meals it was just a regular thing.

Where do I walk now: Now that I am older I love taking walks and hikes everywhere. I currently live in Portland, OR and love walking around my neighborhood and to downtown. It’s a great city to walk in and with nature everywhere there are plenty of hikes to keep me busy. I love using the app, All Trails, it’s a great resource to find hikes and walks all over.

My thoughts on running: Running I just don’t get it. It’s just not my thing. I watch some people running by and they don’t look like they are having fun.Some do, but a lot don’t, they look like they are legit struggling. The last time I remember running I was a teenager and lived at the beach. My friends and I, we would use Liquid Paper (the liquid in a jar with a little brush to correct mistakes) put it on a sock and sniff it, then we would attempt to jog in the sand. We would always fall and sand was everywhere. I don’t recommend doing this to anyone, we were young very mischievous.

Conclusion: I love walking and it’s a bonus that’s it’s amazing exercise. While I am checking out all the beauty around me it helps me relax and reduces stress. While I am walking I am exercising my heart and boosting my energy. Walking helps move my joints and use my muscles. I am lucky because I really appreciate where I live and it’s so easy to get around by foot. I guess I could even say walking is like a hobby to me, I love it. What’s it like where you live? How is the walkability?

Daily writing prompt
How often do you walk or run?

Experience Portland, OR: Wacky Weather, Outdoor Adventures, and Quirky Charm

I live in Portland, OR. I moved here in late 2022 so I have been here a couple summers and winters. I lived in the PNW earlier in life, in Seattle. When I left Seattle I promised myself I would never move to this area again because of the rain and overcast skies. Over the years I have discovered that I am happiest in sunny weather, it does not necessarily have to be warm but at least sunny.

I moved back to the PNW for work and it had been about 20 years since I had been back. Since leaving Seattle I have lived in Hawaii, Nevada, Pennsylvania, Washington and California. After moving to Portland, I remember the summer of 2023 the most, it was amazing. It was I think an El Niño year and every day was sunny and warm from May to September. We were out and about every day and that’s what brings me to the start of my list:

  1. Trees, trees and more trees everywhere. If you are from CA and drive up Interstate 5 you can see them popping up as you go north.
  2. It’s quiet! I did move from the city of San Francisco (it was loud every night till 2 or 3 am where we lived) We live outside of downtown, still in Portland.
  3. Cars stop and wait for you to cross. Even when you are not in a cross walk. Most of the cities I have moved from you could wait for 10 minutes or longer before someone would stop.
  4. Food Cart hubs in every community. So many foods from different cultures to try.
  5. Vegan and Vegetarian paradise. I do follow a vegan diet so the selection of food has been amazing.
  6. Bridges – fun to walk over and take photos. I walk to downtown often and can choose which bridge I would like to cross.
  7. Lots of water – the Willamette goes through town, there are boats to rent, even jacuzzi boats. There are beaches and specific swim areas.
  8. Many parks and the largest urban forest in the country – Forest Park is 5,200 acres. Lots of hiking and biking opportunities.
  9. The Columbia River Gorge and all the beautiful waterfalls are less than 1 hour away. It makes for easy weekend getaways and a great place to take visiting relatives.
  10. It’s weird. Check out the Freakybuttrue Peculiarium. Naked bike rides, Silent discos on the bridges at night, Pumpkin regattas, Witches paddle boarding on the Willamette for Halloween. The city tagline is “Keep Portland Weird”.
  11. It’s bike and pedestrian friendly. So many biking lanes everywhere with special bike stop lights. There is even a bridge that’s only pedestrians, bikes and public transportation.
  12. It has all the seasons. We had an ice storm last winter, we couldn’t leave the house, the roads were that thick with ice and then my favorite summer ever that I mentioned before.
  13. Cannabis dispensaries and Coffee shops everywhere. Great for cannabis users and coffee drinkers.
  14. The coast is less than 2 hours away and everyone knows how special the Oregon Coast is.
  15. No sales tax – what the price is, is what you pay!

That’s just my list – there are many other things l love but there are also a handful that I don’t love but that is for another post.

All in all, I am happy with my move to Portland, OR and it’s been the best place I have lived in a while.